What's been astonishing me is how well behaved this kinkmeme's been so far. I mean, yes, only fifteen pages in, but only one incident and that fixed in three comments. All the fandom memes and forums I've been to before this (including Potterverse in its youth) were so explosively DRAMATIC. That and how we all just know how to run the place so the "fuck it we'll figure it out later" of the rules is actually just fine.