That's it.

I know Barnes is different last name but hear me out. Maybe Goldie has a one night stand. Maybe they change their name? Maybe, for timelines sake for mcu... it's his first marriage or while he was enlisted?

Whatever the case, give me Bucky (and skinny pre-serum Steve) getting hair ruffles and treats ot talked to about fighting.

Bucky just strikes me as the same guy at core. Mostly unruffled by all the crazy shit in his life.